The D/s dynamic has to be built out of the boring moments. In the split second when you need to make a decision about dinner and you feel the urge to defer and hand it back to her because making the call feels like too much responsibility. In the moment when she starts to plan, organize, and control the weekend because letting you lead feels too vulnerable and too much like giving up the safety she’s built by staying in charge of everything. These moments are where the dynamic actually lives. No

This is my personal experience with drop. For me it's still worth being in a Ds dynamic, even when I have some drop from time to time. Sharing this so people understand what it feels like. I get drop from the Dom and sub role. It feels very similar. What's your experience? #dsrelationship #domsubrelationship #subdrop #domdrop | Thekinkconsultant