Circumspection Our elders say that "Ajụghi ajụ eri butere ariaghi aria anwụ". And our ancestor Chinua Achebe brought a whole different perspective that: “It is praise worthy to be brave and fearless, but sometimes it is better to be a coward. We often stand in the compound of a coward to point at the ruins where a brave man used to live." Alpha male don enter potopoto.... Being a shy man has its day. I enjoy being shy. It saves me lots of wahala. A full grown well dressed man left his house and